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#1 Way To Break A Bad Habit FastWed, 14 Apr 2010 00:28:59 +0000hourly1http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0By: Zale
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ZaleTue, 09 Mar 2010 03:58:59 +0000http://www.breakbadhabit.com/are-you-depriving-yourself-of-self-love#comment-1059Because everyone doesn't have getting married on their life's 'to do' list. Marriage nowadays is all about love. Everyone might not get as lucky as you have. Some people go their whole lives without finding anyone. Marriage is a big step and if people got married just because, it wouldn't work. Besides humans have hormones and needs. My reasoning is that pre-marital sex is alright as long as you use good judgment(i. e. being stable emotionally,financially, etc. )<br><b>References : </b><br>Because everyone doesn’t have getting married on their life’s ‘to do’ list. Marriage nowadays is all about love. Everyone might not get as lucky as you have. Some people go their whole lives without finding anyone. Marriage is a big step and if people got married just because, it wouldn’t work. Besides humans have hormones and needs. My reasoning is that pre-marital sex is alright as long as you use good judgment(i. e. being stable emotionally,financially, etc. ) References :
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Luft WaffleTue, 09 Mar 2010 03:56:59 +0000http://www.breakbadhabit.com/are-you-depriving-yourself-of-self-love#comment-1058How is virginity a gift? Its painful and messy.
Id much rather marry someone that is not a virgin, so on the wedding night we can really enjoy ourselves and not have the awkward first time sex thing.<br><b>References : </b><br>How is virginity a gift? Its painful and messy.
Id much rather marry someone that is not a virgin, so on the wedding night we can really enjoy ourselves and not have the awkward first time sex thing. References :
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CTue, 09 Mar 2010 03:54:59 +0000http://www.breakbadhabit.com/are-you-depriving-yourself-of-self-love#comment-1057I get what you're saying that it's all about love and all that. I totally agree that sex can be an act of total love. It can also be an act of total lust, and that's ok too.
What good could come from suppressing all of your desires until you get married? What if it turns out the person you married is a starfish in bed. Or what if they have a really low sex drive. What about if they have a 1 inch penis?
All these would encourage you to think 'what if?'. What if I had had sex before marrying this person and found out that they were like this?
Is it really a good idea to wait until you're bound to that person for life until you discover that a big part of your relationship will be disappointing no matter what you do?
And if you say sex isn't important you're lying. If if wasn't important you wouldn't have such a big thing about saving it until you're married.
It's not entirely about compatibility (though that is a convenient way to put it). It's more about ensuring that your relationship will be fulfilling in every way. The way it should be.<br><b>References : </b><br>I get what you’re saying that it’s all about love and all that. I totally agree that sex can be an act of total love. It can also be an act of total lust, and that’s ok too.
What good could come from suppressing all of your desires until you get married? What if it turns out the person you married is a starfish in bed. Or what if they have a really low sex drive. What about if they have a 1 inch penis?
All these would encourage you to think ‘what if?’. What if I had had sex before marrying this person and found out that they were like this?
Is it really a good idea to wait until you’re bound to that person for life until you discover that a big part of your relationship will be disappointing no matter what you do?
And if you say sex isn’t important you’re lying. If if wasn’t important you wouldn’t have such a big thing about saving it until you’re married.
It’s not entirely about compatibility (though that is a convenient way to put it). It’s more about ensuring that your relationship will be fulfilling in every way. The way it should be. References :
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